Being seated is great because, again, you’re in control here. Kama Sutra was big on having women wear jewelry that could help guide them during sex, Anand says. "For seated positions, you wore a seven or nine-string necklace of pearls," she says. "You want the pearls to move from side to side very gently…the movement of the body will just flow." She recommends leaning back and lifting up slightly so you’re resting your weight on your partner’s knees. Do It: Your partner sits and you sit on top, facing away from them.